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Barrister Gloria Adagbon At Another Year: Celebrating A Woman Who Knows Who She Is -By Isaac Asabor
Today, therefore, I celebrate Barrister Gloria Adagbon, the lawyer, the journalist, the politician, the advocate, the daughter of Igbanke and the woman of conviction. I celebrate the courage to speak. I celebrate the courage to stand. I celebrate the courage to remember where one comes from. And I celebrate the grace to continue the journey. Happy birthday, Barrister Gloria Adagbon.
Birthdays are often marked with cakes, photographs, music and congratulatory messages. But some birthdays deserve something more: a moment of reflection on the journey of the celebrant, the values she represents and the footprints she is leaving behind.
As Barrister Gloria Adagbon marks another birthday today, it is therefore appropriate not merely to say Happy Birthday, but to celebrate the woman behind the name, a lawyer, trained journalist, politician, advocate and, above all, a woman who has demonstrated remarkable courage in standing for what she believes in.
If there is one phrase that captures the spirit of Gloria Adagbon, it is one she has repeatedly used in defending the cultural identity of her people: “We are who we are!”
The foregoing words are simple, but they say a great deal about the woman. They speak of conviction. They speak of identity. They speak of courage. And they speak of a person who does not easily surrender her convictions simply because it may be more convenient to remain silent.
Last year, I had the privilege of writing about Barrister Adagbon and her passionate advocacy for the identity and heritage of the Igbanke people. What struck me most was not merely the position she took, but the courage and intellectual conviction with which she articulated it.
As a daughter of Igbanke, she has consistently insisted that the people should be allowed to define themselves and preserve their cultural heritage. Her famous declaration that “Igbanke is Ika, not Benin” was not presented as a casual slogan, but as an argument she believes is rooted in history, language, culture, ancestry and lived experience.
Whether one agrees with every aspect of the historical debate or not, there is something worthy of recognition in a woman who is prepared to stand publicly for the identity she believes in. That courage is one of Gloria Adagbon’s defining qualities.
She once made a particularly striking argument that names alone should not be used to determine ethnic identity. As she put it, having a particular surname does not automatically determine one’s ethnicity. For her, language, culture, ancestry and lived experience matter.
That position reveals another dimension of her personality: she is not afraid to question assumptions. And perhaps that is what makes her advocacy particularly compelling.
Beyond the identity question, Adagbon has also drawn attention to what she considers the developmental and administrative challenges confronting Igbanke. Her advocacy for greater recognition and the creation of an Igbanke Local Government Area is tied, in her view, to the broader question of development, representation and inclusion.
In other words, for her, identity is not merely about nomenclature. It is also about dignity, recognition, belonging and development. That is an important distinction.
Her journey also demonstrates that professional training can become more meaningful when it is deployed in the service of something larger than personal advancement. As a lawyer, she understands advocacy. As a trained journalist, she understands the power of information and public discourse. As a politician, she understands the realities of public affairs. And as a daughter of Igbanke, she understands the emotional connection between a people and their heritage. These different dimensions of her life have converged in the woman we celebrate today. But beyond titles and public advocacy is the more important question of character.
What does a person stand for when standing is difficult? What does she do when remaining silent would be easier? And what does she leave behind when the applause fades? These are questions that make birthdays meaningful.
For Barrister Gloria Adagbon, one answer is already evident: she has chosen to use her voice. She has used it to speak about identity. She has used it to challenge what she considers historical misconceptions. She has used it to advocate for the interests of her people. And she has used it to remind others that communities should not lose their sense of who they are simply because history, politics or administrative arrangements have placed them in particular circumstances. That is no small contribution.
There is also something inspiring about a woman who remains connected to her roots while navigating the demands of professional and public life.
In an increasingly homogenized world, where cultural identities can easily be diluted by political expediency, social pressure and the desire to fit in, Gloria Adagbon’s message is remarkably straightforward: “know who you are, understand where you come from and have the courage to preserve what you believe is worth preserving.” That lesson extends beyond Igbanke. It speaks to every individual who has ever had to defend an aspect of his or her identity. It speaks to communities struggling to preserve their history. It speaks to young people searching for their place in a rapidly changing society.
And perhaps that is one reason why her birthday deserves more than the conventional celebration. It is an opportunity to celebrate a life of conviction.
Barrister Gloria Adagbon may not agree with everyone, and not everyone may agree with her. But democracy, public discourse and community development are enriched when people have the courage to articulate their convictions respectfully and defend them with facts, experience and reason. That courage should be encouraged.
As she enters another year, may she therefore find renewed strength to continue the causes that matter to her, while remaining open to dialogue, knowledge and the wisdom that comes with experience. May the new year bring her good health, peace, wisdom, professional fulfilment and greater opportunities to make meaningful contributions to society.
May she continue to be a source of encouragement to younger people, particularly those who need the confidence to stand for what they believe is right.
May the years ahead bring her not only success, but also the satisfaction of knowing that her voice has made a difference.
And may she never lose that quality that has distinguished her public advocacy: the courage to say, “We are who we are.” Because, ultimately, a meaningful life is not measured only by the offices one occupies, the titles one carries or the material things one acquires. It is measured by the values one defends, the people one inspires and the difference one makes.
Today, therefore, I celebrate Barrister Gloria Adagbon, the lawyer, the journalist, the politician, the advocate, the daughter of Igbanke and the woman of conviction. I celebrate the courage to speak. I celebrate the courage to stand. I celebrate the courage to remember where one comes from. And I celebrate the grace to continue the journey. Happy birthday, Barrister Gloria Adagbon.
May this new chapter of your life be filled with greater accomplishments, deeper fulfilment, sound health, enduring peace and abundant reasons to be grateful.
May you live long enough to see many of the dreams you have carried for yourself, your people and your community become reality.
And may posterity remember not just the positions you held, but the courage with which you used your voice. Happy birthday to a woman who knows who she is, knows where she comes from and is not afraid to say so.
Many more years, Barrister Gloria Adagbon, and keep shining. Keep serving. Keep speaking. Keep inspiring.