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Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan: The Queen of the Senate — Where the Chamber Laughed and the Daughters of Nigeria Wept in Libya -By Prof. John Egbeazien Oshodi
Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan’s motion may have been about women suffering in Libya, but its real revelation was about men in Nigeria — men in power who laugh to avoid truth. They should not be deceived by the applause that followed; the world heard the laughter first.
Return of the Silenced Voice
When Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan rose to move her motion on the plight of trafficked and abused Nigerian women in Libyan prisons, the moment was not just procedural—it was historic. This was a woman who had only recently returned from an unjust and politically motivated six-month suspension, imposed not for misconduct but for courage. Her crime was daring to speak truth to power, to challenge Senate President Godswill Akpabio, and to expose the silent manipulations of a legislative body increasingly bent toward loyalty over law.
During her time away, she had described the Senate as “a cult,” where obedience to the leader overrides conscience and independence. Her words were dismissed by some as anger, but as she took the floor again that day, the truth of her description would manifest before the entire nation. She was not merely speaking as a reinstated senator; she was speaking as a woman reborn through institutional fire, now holding up a mirror to the Senate’s soul.
A Motion for Forgotten Daughters
Her motion was simple, humane, and urgent. She called on the Nigerian government to act swiftly to repatriate its daughters—Nigerian women languishing in Libyan prisons under horrific conditions. These were not ordinary detainees; they were victims of trafficking, violence, and dehumanization. Many had been captured while seeking economic refuge, then imprisoned and turned into tools of exploitation.
In her words, they were being “used to satisfy the sexual urges of Libyan prison wardens and officials,” forced into repeated acts of sexual submission, and some even compelled to bear children in captivity. It was a motion that spoke to the conscience of any society still capable of empathy—a cry from the floor of Nigeria’s legislature for the return of her nation’s stolen dignity.
But the reaction was chilling. The chamber fell silent. No senator, male or female, rose to second her motion. It was as though compassion itself had been declared out of order. Even the three older female senators—those who might have been expected to recognize both the gendered and moral weight of the motion—remained motionless. Perhaps not all were present; perhaps age or caution held them back. But symbolically, the silence was complete.
It was the silence of conformity, the silence of a chamber conditioned to await permission before compassion. Natasha stood alone—a single woman confronting a wall of fear and obedience—teaching, in that moment, what courage means in an age of institutional cowardice.
A Statesman Breaks the Silence – Opeyemi Bamidele and the Courage of Conscience
It took the quiet moral resolve of Senate Leader Opeyemi Bamidele to pierce the thick silence that had swallowed the red chamber. For long seconds, the air hung heavy with discomfort — senators shifting in their seats, eyes lowered, unwilling to meet Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan’s gaze. The moral weight of her motion lingered over the room like incense no one dared to breathe in. Then, with calm deliberation, Bamidele rose.
He did not raise his voice or strike a dramatic pose. His act was neither theatrical nor political — it was principled. By standing to second the motion, he defied the invisible code of obedience that often governs the chamber. It was an understated but profound declaration: that conscience must, at times, rise where courage has fallen.
In a Senate where silence had become a strategy and neutrality a form of self-preservation, Bamidele’s decision was a rare moment of clarity. It reminded Nigerians that the legislature, however weakened by politics, still holds the capacity for moral awakening. His action restored a fragment of dignity to a chamber that had, moments earlier, traded empathy for conformity.
Psychologically, it was an act of quiet rebellion — not against leadership, but against fear. Bamidele’s composure served as an unspoken reprimand to his colleagues: that power without compassion is emptiness, and silence in the face of injustice is complicity. His intervention transformed a moment of collective shame into one of hesitant redemption.
Opeyemi Bamidele may not have sought the spotlight that day, yet history will remember him as the man who, amid laughter and avoidance, chose to stand when it mattered most. In doing so, he reminded the chamber — and the nation — that the role of a leader is not merely to echo power, but to honor truth.
When Power Turned Pain into Comedy – Godswill Akpabio and the Theater of Mockery
What followed turned solemnity into spectacle. Senate President Godswill Akpabio, instead of dignifying Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan’s humanitarian motion, chose to turn it into a public performance. With a smirk that betrayed both discomfort and deflection, he repeatedly pressed Opeyemi Bamidele to “repeat the prayers,” saying again and again, “Repeat the additional prayers so people will understand.” His tone carried the rhythm of ridicule, not responsibility. The prayers had already been read, recorded, and clarified — with Natasha’s help — yet Akpabio insisted, stretching the moment into absurdity.
Each repetition became a small act of mockery, each grin an invitation to derision. The chamber — supposedly the nation’s highest space for reasoned deliberation — transformed into a stage of male amusement. Laughter rolled through the Senate, not from joy, but from the nervous pleasure of conformity. The sound of mockery filled the air — laughter at what was unfunny, jest at what was tragic, noise over what demanded silence.
The Amusement of Men – When Laughter Replaced Leadership
In that moment, the laughter of the mostly male senators carried the weight of something deeper than humor. It was not laughter born of misunderstanding, but laughter born of fear — fear of confronting the uncomfortable truth that Natasha’s motion had unearthed. These were men who found it easier to laugh than to listen, to joke than to judge themselves.
The amusement of men in that chamber became a psychological shield, a collective armor against moral responsibility. To them, laughter was safety — a way to remain untouched by the pain of others. But to the watching nation, that laughter was betrayal. It revealed a Senate more comfortable mocking truth than defending dignity, more willing to perform unity than to show empathy.
And one can only wonder what was going through Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan’s mind as she sat watching them — men old enough to be her mentors, laughing at the suffering of women enslaved abroad. Did she see, in that moment, the full confirmation of her earlier words — that the Senate had indeed become a cult, where obedience had replaced conscience, and mockery had replaced morality? Did she feel anger, or only a quiet sadness that the nation’s highest lawmakers could laugh in the face of human pain?
The amusement of men is the death of conscience. And in that chamber, it played out before the eyes of the nation — a tragic comedy where those sworn to protect the weak instead found humor in their suffering. Akpabio’s laughter became the symbol of an institution stripped of sensitivity. In the sound of those chuckles, Nigerians heard something larger than mockery — they heard the echo of a leadership that has forgotten how to feel.
The Psychology of Deflection – When Truth Possibly Touched the Guilty
As Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan uttered those piercing words — “used to satisfy the sexual urges of Libyan prison wardens” — standing firm at her desk, her voice calm yet charged with moral weight, something could be felt shifting across the chamber. Her tone carried both compassion and confrontation — not aimed at anyone in particular, yet it possibly unsettled those whose consciences were not entirely clear.
It could be that Senate President Godswill Akpabio, seated high above, felt a flicker of unease. Perhaps those words, spoken with such conviction, reminded him of the lingering allegations of sexual harassment that once cast a shadow between them. One could imagine him thinking, “Not again.” Not this voice, not this woman, not this moment of truth returning to haunt a carefully controlled chamber.
From a psychological standpoint, Akpabio’s visible discomfort and sudden shift into laughter could be read as a form of deflection — the mind’s instinctive retreat from emotional exposure. His repeated teasing of Senate Leader Opeyemi Bamidele — “repeat the prayers… repeat the additional prayers so people will understand” — may not have been about procedure at all, but about reclaiming control through humor. He possibly used levity as a shield, turning discomfort into spectacle.
The rest of the Senate, mostly male, followed his emotional cue. What may have begun as one man’s attempt to suppress unease became collective avoidance — a laughter that sought to bury truth beneath noise. To them, mockery felt safer than empathy, and joking served as a release from the tension Natasha’s words had introduced.
In psychological terms, it was a classic projection: the guilt of men displaced through laughter, the anxiety of power masked as amusement. What was meant to be a moment of humanitarian advocacy turned, before the nation’s eyes, into a scene of subconscious defense — a chamber laughing not at women’s pain, but at its own inability to face it.
In that laughter, Nigerians possibly witnessed something far deeper than political immaturity. They saw the moral psychology of a state — one that too often turns pain into performance, privilege into laughter, and accountability into avoidance.
And yet, as the laughter echoed, Senator Natasha stood composed. Her presence alone seemed to remind them that truth, however mocked or minimized, always returns — calm, steady, and unwilling to disappear.
A Moment of Restoration – When One Voice Brought the Room Back to Order
Then came Senate Leader Opeyemi Bamidele — the lone voice of sobriety amid the noise. With visible firmness and quiet authority, he cut through the mockery that had cheapened the moment. “On a serious note,” he said, “these are her prayers: that the Nigerian Immigration Service liaise with the Libyan authorities to return the female prisoners.”
It was a simple statement, yet it carried the weight of leadership. In a chamber that had turned a woman’s moral appeal into spectacle, Bamidele’s composure re-centered the Senate on its humanitarian duty. He did not raise his voice, nor did he rebuke anyone. But his tone — calm, measured, resolute — shamed the laughter into silence.
At that point, Godswill Akpabio, seeing the gravity restored, had no choice but to proceed. “Those in support, say ‘I’,” he called out. The same senators who had moments earlier frozen in cowardice now chorused “I” in unison. “The motion is carried unanimously,” Akpabio declared.
But the irony was sharp and painful. The unanimous vote did not come from conviction — it came from exposure. They had been seen. The cameras had caught the laughter, the hesitation, the indifference. And now, for the record, they pretended unity. This was not leadership; it was performance. Not repentance, but repair. The same Senate that mocked empathy now hid behind it, desperate to appear decent.
The ritual was complete: silence, mockery, obedience, and finally, coerced consent. It was the familiar dance of institutional hypocrisy — where morality is only restored when shame arrives. Yet, even in that shallow restoration, one truth stood clear: it took one man’s composure to steady the chamber, but it took one woman’s courage to awaken its conscience.
The Lesson from the Queen – Natasha’s Quiet Dominion
Through it all, Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan stood calm, unflinching, dignified. She did not clap when they chorused “I.” She did not smile when the motion passed. Her silence carried more meaning than their applause. She knew she had already triumphed — not through validation, but through revelation.
Her presence that day transformed the Senate into a moral classroom. Every laugh, every hesitation, every forced “I” became part of a lecture on integrity. Her motion was not merely about foreign prisons — it was about domestic captivity: the captivity of conscience under political control.
Even the three older women in the Senate, whether present or not, were drawn into the symbolism of the moment. They represented tradition — the generation that learned to survive through silence. Natasha represented transformation — the woman who speaks even when surrounded by ridicule. In that generational divide lay Nigeria’s moral dilemma: the old guard’s caution versus the new conscience of courage.
She remains, as one psychologist once called her, the Queen of the Senate — not by position, but by presence. She does not rule by decree, but by truth. Her return from suspension was not the restoration of her seat, but the resurrection of integrity. Her calm that day was prophetic. It told the chamber: “I have not returned to blend in; I have returned to bear witness.”
And now, the men who laughed must prepare for what comes next — for the Queen has only just begun. Her presence will continue to unsettle, to expose, to hold mirrors before faces that once hid behind jokes. She has forced the Senate to meet its own reflection — and there will be no unseeing what has been revealed.
When the Men Laughed, One Woman Taught – The Moment Truth Became a Mirror
In that chamber, when the men laughed, one woman taught. Her lesson was simple but searing: that truth, though mocked in the moment, always commands the room in the end. Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan exposed the fault lines of the Senate — the fragility of male ego, the emptiness of performative authority, and the hollowness of those who wear titles without moral weight.
Her motion on Libya was more than a humanitarian plea. It was a mirror held up to Nigeria’s soul. It revealed how institutions built to serve often recoil when confronted with pain. It showed how quickly laughter becomes the mask of guilt, how easily conscience is traded for comfort.
In those few minutes of laughter, the Senate displayed before the world what happens when empathy is seen as weakness and mockery as strength. But Natasha’s calm gaze reversed the power dynamic. Every smirk became a confession. Every chuckle became evidence of cowardice. Every delayed seconding of her motion became a metaphor for a country that only acts when shamed.
She taught without raising her voice. She judged without pointing fingers. She left the Senate floor not as a woman dismissed, but as a conscience enthroned.
A Mirror for the Nation – The Queen Has Just Begun
What unfolded in that chamber was not merely a gendered spectacle; it was a moral parable for Nigeria itself. The Senate’s behavior reflected the national pattern — silence before outrage, laughter before remorse, reaction before responsibility. It showed a country where power waits to be embarrassed before it acts, and where justice hides behind ceremony until truth drags it into daylight.
But this time, the laughter came at a cost. The cameras recorded it, the people saw it, and the Queen of the Senate stood watching — unamused, unafraid, and unforgotten. The world saw too: how a woman of conscience exposed a chamber of comfort.
Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan’s motion may have been about women suffering in Libya, but its real revelation was about men in Nigeria — men in power who laugh to avoid truth. They should not be deceived by the applause that followed; the world heard the laughter first.
And now, they must prepare. For the Queen has only just begun.
Her return is not a re-entry into politics — it is a reckoning.
She will speak again, and the nation will listen — not because they must, but because conscience demands it.
The men laughed.
The Queen watched.
And the story of their laughter will follow them far beyond the walls of the Senate.
About the Author
Prof. John Egbeazien Oshodi is an American psychologist and educator specializing in forensic, legal, clinical, cross-cultural psychology, public ethical policy, police, and prison science.
Born in Uromi, Edo State, Nigeria, and the son of a 37-year veteran of the Nigeria Police Force, he has devoted his career to connecting psychology with justice, education, and governance. In 2011, he pioneered the introduction of advanced forensic psychology in Nigeria through the National Universities Commission and Nasarawa State University, where he served as Associate Professor of Psychology.
He currently serves as contributing faculty in the Doctorate in Clinical and School Psychology at Nova Southeastern University; teaches in the Doctorate Clinical Psychology, BS Psychology, and BS Tempo Criminal Justice programs at Walden University; and is a virtual professor of Management and Leadership Studies at Weldios University and ISCOM University. He also serves as President and Chief Psychologist at the Oshodi Foundation, Center for Psychological and Forensic Services, United States.
Prof. Oshodi is a Black Republican whose work promotes individual responsibility, community self-reliance, and institutional democracy. He is the founder of Psychoafricalysis (Psychoafricalytic Psychology)—a culturally grounded framework centering African sociocultural realities, historical consciousness, and future-oriented identity. A prolific scholar, he has authored more than 500 articles, several books, and numerous peer-reviewed works on Africentric psychology, higher education reform, forensic and correctional psychology, African democracy, and decolonized therapeutic models.