Beyond The Glitz: Why Chasing Shadows Like Bobrisky’s Lifestyle Won’t Lead To Fulfillment, by Isaac Asabor

In a society that places increasing value on wealth and glamour, it is not uncommon to see certain figures in the limelight flaunting their material success as proof of their lifestyle choices. Recently, popular Nigerian social media personality Bobrisky made headlines during his travels abroad, as he drew attention not only to his journey but to the extravagant amount he spent on a first-class ticket. However, beneath this display of opulence lies a more important message for Nigerian youths: the pursuit of wealth alone does not lead to lasting satisfaction. In fact, the wisdom of scriptures warns us about the empty allure of materialism and the dangers of envying others whose values may not align with true purpose and fulfillment.

To many young Nigerians, the lives of celebrities and social media influencers like Bobrisky seem glamorous and attractive. The lure of a lifestyle filled with luxurious travel, expensive fashion, and lavish parties can indeed be enticing. However, such lifestyles are often unsustainable and do not necessarily reflect inner peace or happiness. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 23:4-5, “Do not wear yourself out to get rich; do not trust your own cleverness. Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone, for they will surely sprout wings and fly off to the sky like an eagle.”

The scripture emphasizes that material wealth is often temporary and can vanish as quickly as it appeared. This is why it is dangerous to base one’s self-worth on riches or to look up to those whose only testimony is the money they have spent. True success lies not in flaunting wealth, but in character, integrity, and impact on others’ lives.

It is natural to look up to public figures and be inspired, but there is a fine line between admiration and envy. Social media has intensified the tendency to compare ourselves with others. We see the surface-level highlights of people’s lives without knowing the full story, and this can lead to dissatisfaction with our own lives. Galatians 6:4-5 advises, “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load.”

Many young people fall into the trap of chasing wealth and fame without considering whether these pursuits align with their values or their purpose. Bobrisky’s lifestyle may seem alluring to some, but his display of wealth without depth is a reminder that it is important to question what truly brings fulfillment. Do we want to pursue things that give temporary pleasure, or do we want to build lives rooted in meaning?

One of the greatest lessons we can draw from scripture is the power of contentment. In 1 Timothy 6:6-10, we read, “But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction.”

This passage underscores the peace that comes with being content and the dangers of chasing after wealth for its own sake. The joy that many think they will find in material things is often short-lived. Contentment, on the other hand, brings lasting peace and frees us from the exhausting pursuit of keeping up with others.

While Bobrisky may pride himself or herself on his or her financial achievements, true wealth is not measured by money alone. It is found in inner fulfillment, meaningful relationships, and a life of purpose. Ecclesiastes 5:10 reminds us, “Whoever loves money never has enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with their income. This too is meaningless.” Wealth in itself is not evil, but an unhealthy attachment to it can be dangerous.

The testimony of wealth that Bobrisky shares pales in comparison to the enduring impact of those who live with purpose, integrity, and a commitment to serving others. Young Nigerians are encouraged to seek fulfillment in personal growth, family, and contributions to society.

Young people today are faced with more choices than ever about who they want to be and what they want to stand for. Figures like Bobrisky may tempt some to abandon their own paths in favor of chasing fleeting glory. However, this is a distraction from what truly matters. Philippians 4:8 offers a wise guide: “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, think about such things.”

Choosing to live with purpose means aligning your life with values that bring out the best in you and inspire others. When we look to figures in the public eye, let us seek those whose lives reflect positive values, not just wealth.

At the end of the day, wealth and material things will fade. What remains is the impact we leave on others. Bobrisky’s wealth may serve his interests, but a life that truly matters is one that leaves a legacy of positive influence. Proverbs 22:1 tells us, “A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.”

Instead of seeking to amass wealth for the sake of appearances, young Nigerians are encouraged to build a legacy of integrity, kindness, and contribution to their communities. These are the things that will be remembered long after the temporary allure of material wealth fades.

Against the foregoing cautionary backdrop, it is expedient to in this context urge Nigerian youths to seek lasting fulfillment, not temporary satisfaction.

It is essential for Nigerian youths to recognize that while wealth and success are valuable, they should not come at the expense of purpose and integrity. Bobrisky’s display of wealth may seem impressive to some, but it ultimately represents an empty pursuit if it lacks substance and positive impact. Let us choose role models whose lives reflect values worth emulating and aim to build lives of purpose, impact, and lasting contentment.

The words of Jesus in Matthew 6:19-21 resonate powerfully: “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

In the end, the real treasures are not in luxury, fame, or social media validation but in the lasting fulfillment that comes from a life well-lived and a legacy rooted in love, service, and faith. Choose to invest in a life that goes beyond wealth, for it is there that true riches are found.