Education
No One Tells You This: The Harsh Reality of University Life After High School -By Chukwu Chidera Chidera
Tunde Zakariyyau, a final-year student from the Department of Computer Science, said “From the moment I entered university, it’s been: ‘buy this, buy that.’ Though I’m in my final year and doing well academically, the money I’ve spent and still spending could build a house.”
For many young people, university is painted as a dream world—full of freedom, self-discovery, and exciting opportunities. After years of tight schedules, uniforms, and constant supervision in secondary school, it’s easy to believe that the next phase will be easier, or at least more enjoyable.
But the reality hits differently.
Once you cross the gates of university life, you begin to realise that the stories you heard were only part of the truth. The transition from high school to university can be one of the toughest life adjustments you’ll ever face.
The Illusion of Freedom
Freedom in university is real—but it comes with a heavy dose of responsibility. There are no bells to remind you of classes, no teachers checking your homework, and no one monitoring your movements. It’s all on you now.
Nana Okansi, a Level 300 student from the Department of Agriculture, shared her experience:
“I wanted admission so badly because I was tired of doing chores at home. But now, I go home every weekend because I can’t deal with all the stress. I’m glad I chose BUK and I’m based in Kano, or I would’ve starved. Every chance I get, I go home to eat and restock foodstuffs.”
“There’s freedom in school, but food is at home so choose wisely”. She added
Elizabeth Udekwe, a Level 400 student of Theatre and Performing Arts, echoed a similar sentiment: “I wanted freedom so badly, but the opposite is the case now. I go home every little chance I get because the stress and hunger are draining me. I miss my home so much and can’t wait to go again.”
Academic Pressure Without Hand-Holding
University lecturers assume you already know how to learn independently. Topics are covered rapidly, and you’re expected to fill in the gaps on your own. For students who thrived on structured guidance in secondary school, the pace can be overwhelming.
Maryjane Enemchukwu, a Level 400 student from the Department of Forestry, reflected on her struggles. “Though I’m doing well now, my first year was tough. I had a carryover and it broke me because I wanted my school life to go smoothly. I wish I had an older sibling or someone to guide me before I entered university.”
Financial Reality Bites
Beyond tuition, university life brings a long list of ongoing expenses—textbooks, data, transportation, accommodation, food, and endless levies. Unless you’re on a scholarship or receiving consistent financial support, the pressure can be intense.
Tunde Zakariyyau, a final-year student from the Department of Computer Science, said “From the moment I entered university, it’s been: ‘buy this, buy that.’ Though I’m in my final year and doing well academically, the money I’ve spent and still spending could build a house.”
University may offer more freedom than high school, but it also demands more discipline, focus, and emotional maturity. Many students are caught off guard by how hard it truly is. But with the right mindset and support system, it’s possible to adapt and thrive.
This isn’t to scare anyone, it’s to prepare them. University can be a place of real growth and self-discovery, but only if you enter with open eyes. The system won’t always hold your hand and that’s okay as long as you’re willing to take charge of your own journey.
No one tells you this, but they should: university isn’t just the next level of school, it’s the beginning of real life.
