Forgotten Dairies
The Shadows That Refuse to Leave -By Abdulsamad Danji Abdulqadir
Nigeria is not destined to bleed forever. The killings will end when a child in Zamfara can sleep without fear, when a farmer in Borno can harvest without looking over his shoulder, when a mother in Plateau can send her daughter to school and expect her back home safely.
In many parts of Nigeria, the sound that wakes people at night is no longer the crowing of a rooster or the call to prayer it is gunfire. Mothers sleep with one eye open. Fathers bury their sons in silence. Children learn to run before they learn to read. For them, terrorism and banditry are not newspaper headlines; they are daily reality.
For over a decade, Nigerians have waited for the war to end. Each new operation is announced with hope. Each technical defeat is celebrated on paper. Yet the attacks continue, the graves multiply, and the displaced camps grow larger. The question on the lips of ordinary people is simple: Why does this suffering never stop?
The truth is painful. Our soldiers are brave, but bravery alone cannot win a war that is deeper than the battlefield. In many villages, when an attack happens, help comes late sometimes hours, sometimes days. By the time security arrives, homes are ashes and lives are gone. People do not ask for speeches; they ask for protection.
In places where government should be present with schools, clinics, and roads, there is only absence. Young boys grow up without classrooms, without jobs, without hope. When someone offers them a gun and money, the choice becomes less about ideology and more about survival. Violence becomes employment. Kidnapping becomes an industry. Banditry becomes a system.
This is not because Nigerians are naturally violent. It is because neglect creates desperation.
Our soldiers at the frontlines often fight with courage but without adequate support. Some go months without proper allowances. Some face enemies who are better armed. Yet they continue to stand between civilians and chaos. When they fall, their families mourn quietly, and the nation moves on too quickly. A country that does not fully care for those who defend it weakens its own shield.
Communities, too, are trapped in fear. In some areas, villagers pay bandits just to stay alive. Imagine paying a tax to those who may still kill you. Imagine sending your child to fetch water and not knowing if they will return. This is the reality for thousands of Nigerians.
There is also the wound of injustice. When attackers are arrested and nothing is heard again, people lose faith. When displaced families spend years in camps with no clear path home, they begin to feel forgotten. When politics appears louder than human life, trust in government fades.
Terrorism survives where trust is broken.But this story is not only about failure. It is also about what is still possible. Nigerians are resilient. Communities still share food with displaced neighbors. Teachers still gather children under trees to teach them. Farmers still return to their fields after attacks because they believe in tomorrow. This hope is the country’s greatest weapon if leadership chooses to match it with action.
Ending this war requires more than bullets. It requires presence: soldiers who remain, teachers who are paid, clinics that function, roads that connect, justice that is seen and felt. It requires listening to the people who live in the shadow of violence and making them partners in peace, not just victims of policy.
Most importantly, it requires political will the kind that places human life above contracts, above propaganda, above elections.
Nigeria is not destined to bleed forever. The killings will end when a child in Zamfara can sleep without fear, when a farmer in Borno can harvest without looking over his shoulder, when a mother in Plateau can send her daughter to school and expect her back home safely.
The war will end when the government becomes visible not only in times of tragedy but in everyday life. When justice is swift. When opportunity replaces desperation. When protection replaces promises.
Until then, the nation waits wounded, hopeful, and asking to be heard.
