Forgotten Dairies
The Danger Of Acceptance: How The Issues We Normalize Are Breaking Us -By Faith Ogbotor
Social media has also introduced problems that many now accept as normal. The search for attention, online insults, comparison, and spreading false information have become common. Many people forget that behind every account is a real person affected by words and actions. The digital world should connect people, not encourage harm.
Today, many issues that should concern us have become part of everyday life, we normalize dishonesty, unhealthy relationships, corruption, poverty, academic dishonesty, online cruelty and the pressure to pretend everything is fine. Instead of challenging these problems, we adapt to them.
For many people, some problems have become so common that they no longer feel like problems. We laugh about them, make excuses for them, and sometimes even celebrate our ability to survive them. But behind this culture of acceptance lies a dangerous reality, the issues we normalize today may become the reasons society struggles tomorrow.
There was a time when marriage was regarded as a sacred institution built on sacrifice, patience, loyalty and respect. Today however society is gradually normalizing behaviors that silently destroy homes while presenting them as signs of freedom and personal happiness.
Children raised in unstable homes often grow up battling emotional wounds that later reflect in society through violence, distrust, depression and broken relationships. A society that continuously weakens the family structure is unknowingly preparing its own downfall.
This is not about condemning people who went through painful marriages. Some genuinely suffered and deserve empathy. However pain should never be a weapon used to destroy the hope of others who still believe in love, family and commitment.
What is even more alarming is that many young people are now learning about relationships and marriages from individuals who never healed from their broken experiences. Instead of teaching reconciliation, emotional maturity, communication and responsibility, bitterness is now being repackaged as wisdom.
If we continue to mock healthy marriages, discourage perseverance, and glorify destruction then we should prepare ourselves for a future where loyalty becomes rare, trust disappears and families collapse completely.
Social media has also introduced problems that many now accept as normal. The search for attention, online insults, comparison, and spreading false information have become common. Many people forget that behind every account is a real person affected by words and actions. The digital world should connect people, not encourage harm.
The problems we normalize may feel small at first, but their effects can become destructive over time. We must stop confusing familiarity with acceptability. Not everything common is right, and not everything accepted should remain unchanged.
The future depends on our willingness to challenge the things we have become too comfortable with. Because sometimes, the greatest danger is not the problem itself but it is our decision to live with it.
Ogbotor Faith, a 200 level Jornalism student of delta state university, Abraka.
